So to start with, are you trying to power your entire home, or do you only need to power certain things?
Do you have electric appliances, gas appliances, or a mix of both?
What is your primary source of heat?
Are you planning on air conditioning in the summer?
Is this strictly for the bare necessities, or do you want to live like you're still on the grid?
How big of a house, what type of location is it, how old, how well insulated, how much power do you currently use?
There are a LOT of questions that have to be answered in order to try figuring out what kind of generator you need.
If all you want to do is power the fridge, freezer, and one appliance at a time, you can get away with the MEP-802 at 5kw. This is assuming you aren't heating your whole house with electricity.
If your primary heat source is electric (be it baseboards, heat pump, electric furnace, etc) then if you want to keep the whole house warm in winter, you'll need a bigger generator.
If your primary heat is gas or wood, then you can get away with smaller.
Most of the military generators running single phase (the 120/240V in almost every house in the U.S.) are 5 or 10kw. These will NOT run an entire house unless all or most of your appliances are propane/natural gas, or you have wood heat.
If you have gas/propane appliances and a good fuel supply, then I'd recommend looking at a home standby generator instead of the military generator, as then you don't have to worry about keeping the diesel in the generator fresh if it isn't needed/used for a year or more.
As for how to power your house, with one of these 5 or 10kw, you'll either have to get a sub panel wired in that is set up for generator transfer (either automatic or manual, but most likely manual) or get an interlock installed and feed it into the main panel. Either way you're going to want an electrician involved in the process unless you really know what you are doing.
Doing a sub panel, the circuits you want to be powered get moved into the sub panel, and they are the only thing powered when the generator is running. If you do an interlock, you can pick and choose what you want to run from the panel and when, but if you aren't paying attention you can overload the generator.
These generators are awesome, but unless you regularly get outages for long periods of time, the parts supply and people to work on them are a LOT easier to find for brands like Generac, Kohler, Briggs and Stratton, and Onan (most home standby are built by these 4 brands, then many others are just a different name on them like seimens or watchdog or others)
Unless you are handy with tools, good at reading and following technical manuals, able to read parts diagrams, I'd recommend contacting a local electrician who deals with installing generators to help you figure out what you need for your situation.