The original style rubber expansion well nuts have had issues for many folks. The replacement model bulkhead fitting that I posted above has worked for me. As it is brass and viton, it should be relatively unaffected by diesel and oxidation.
In principle, the solid brass fittings should seal better than the expansion versions, but both will be affected to varying degrees if the hole in the wall or interior surface are not clean or flat. The ones that callmecolt sells should work, but I have no experience with them. I prefer the ones from vendors such as Rotomold/Farmer Bob's and others, because of the flats on the threads make it very simple to tighten the bulkhead fitting to a reasonable torque from the outside. The best ones have a groove to retain the o-ring. I believe the McMaster-Carr versions have the groove, but it has been a while since I bought them from McMaster-Carr.
With the strainer removed, it is a five minute operation or so, with a 24-36" piece of wire, and a string attached to the wire. (Remove the old fitting, push a wire through the hole to the filler, put the bulkhead and o-ring fitting on the wire, bend a small "L" or "U" in the wire away from the bulkhead threads, and tie a string to the "U", pull the wire and the fitting into the hole, thread the retaining nut on, use the string to pull the wire out of the tank, and then tighten the nut to the bulkhead fitting. Done.) I think that the exterior flats make tightening the fitting simple and easy.
All the best,
2Pbfeet