Ok found the problem inside the fault light box. Took it apart and there was a white wire going to each of the lamp holders, jumped from one holder to the next. The 2 lamps that worked were over volt and over freq, the jumper wire from over freq to the next lamp was some how shorted and that interupted the path to the rest of the lamps. Once I repaired the jumper across the 2 holders all the lights came on. Sorry I didn't bring the camera to take a couple of pics. The generator at my dads wasn't balanced, he never looses power so we just back fed thru the dryer outlet to get the house going and ran an extension cord to his garage door opener and lights for his garage off of the plug on the back on the generator. At my place I have the house on two legs and my garage on the other like you described. Was just wundering if balancing the 3 legs of the genset is as critical with light loads as compared to running 2 legs close to max output. Thanks for the input and advice Chris