Alright, since this has gone no where, poop. I may have found a place we could all meet up in a neutral location with FOOD! They have car meets at random times at the Fosters Grill in Cape Coral. So if anyone is interested, I will go down there and talk with them and see if I could get something set up. They have parking in the lot next to the place that can handle the "big trucks." Their food is alright, and a little overpriced, but this would not be about the food.
So if your interested, let me know.