Yep same thing here, push on the door with the opposite hand when you pull on the paddle latch.
Had a buddy bend my front right passenger paddle latch pivot points due to this, that being said, west Kentucky is shipping me a new latch free of charge. Good service but product could be a bit better refined.
Alternatively, you can oval out the rear striker holes slightly towards the edge of the truck, will require less force to latch and open then, but a worse weather seal.
As far as the front holes go, you’re kind stuck with where the strikers sit as it’s part of the B pillar support holes.
Also, very lightly grease the window sliding channels, otherwise you’ll be cursing trying to close them while driving lol
I’ve got 8 more doors that I’m installing onto 2 more trucks, will post any other tips I come up with when I deal with those.