I am open to new things. Is there a pictorial on how to do this?
Sorry, no I didn't do a pictorial. Mine changed overnight after an off-road adventure, so I knew it was not normal. Mine was butter smooth to begin with. After off-roading, it would slam on the 2-1 at about 7mph. I carefully observed the trans modulator cable, and saw it is spring loaded (on the trans end under an external cover with anti-tamper screws in it), and wasn't fully returning. This is all observed at the injection pump accelerator arm. I pulled the cable seal back and sprayed WD-40 with a straw down the cable, and worked it in by pulling on the cable core and letting it snap back to its home position. I did this over 40 times, while kept spraying. It is a 15 year old cable and probably has never been lubed. Immediately after on the first test drive, the harsh shifting was gone and it was back to being relatively smooth again. Several others have since done so and had similar results. Try to push your cable in further. If it can be pushed further toward the trans before it bottoms out, then that is likely your issue also, as it was mine. Mine now fully seats on its own, and it did not when I had the U-joint breaking 2-1 downshift.
I could easily have a full McDonald's Coke sitting on my floor board with the lid off while slowing down, and it would not tip over or even spill out when coming to a stop. I can't find a better way to describe how mine downshifts. Guy I bought it from did say it was one of the best shifting trans he has seen, and he pedals a few of these trucks per year.
All I can say is try it, a 15 year old cable likely needs to be lubed anyway.