As mentioned elsewhere - it's obvious that you're seeking a consensus on an opinion that matches your own. Stop dancing around it and just do it if you want to use it that bad. Well respected people here and elsewhere have warned you of the potential danger, others have as well and have seemingly been lucky given the known issue attributed to this switch, that doesn't seem to be a problem with the 3-lever. You spouting off about how you apparently know better and that the military is installing them improperly is quite frankly, insulting.
These aren't in service in HMMWV's for a reason. If you're feeling froggy and want to go for it, then jump.