Nitrile is Buna-N, which is the o-rings they have on the shelf at the local HW store for plumbing at about 10 cents. Calling it "Military" or "Tactical" does not make it "better." If you look up a chemical compatibility chart for elastomers you'll find that Viton (my top choice for many demanding applications) or PTFE are likely chemically resistant "better" materials considering the wide range of "fuels" people use in these trucks. If you poke around locally, you might have an o-ring or seal outfit that sells to local industrial places. Online with McMaster or other industrial supply places are easy solutions if you can't find them locally.
The -012 seems to be a very close fit, yet the cross-section is a bit over what the NSN info lists as the max. Likely not an issue though. It looks like the original version was Buna-N, so I would expect Viton to last much longer due to it's improved chemical compatibility.
If you want to learn about o-rings and seals, the Parker O-Ring handbook as lots of great info, including SAE and metric standard sizes. Shore A 70-75 hardness is the most common. There's also great design info for static and dynamic seals.
https://www.parker.com/literature/ORD 5700 Parker_O-Ring_Handbook.pdf