Forgive me for not reading the entire folly.
400Hz gensets are for a group of 400Hz gear that spends its time in the field. I'll leav it at that for simplicity and OpSec.
If you have one of these generators and you want to find a way to use it at home / shop, you are significantly limited. Here are the few things that are relevant to civilian ownership those generators will drive:
--Lights. Big, honkin, telescopic-mast mercury vapor or halide lights.
--Welders, *IF* you clamp the voltage with a pair of 200Hz conditioners, you have 2 channels of 3-phase 60Hz, but it is very very VERY dirty power, like such that I hope you're using flux-core wire because it'll be hit or miss in your bead.
--Heaters. There are some low-VOC heaters out there that are really just big dumb electric ribbon heaters and it just so happens they're 400Hz. They're also 6' long and weigh about 200#, so if you're going to put one up, exercise by crucifying your sister-in-law. Repeatedly.
--Battery bank for a UPS system. DC doesn't care about Hz, but you need enough batteries to accept the output without popping every time you fire it up.
--Traffic signs (don't know why you'd have this at home, but OK)
Basically, lights and heaters. You will get way more use and reliability out of them for the small price you paid for the generator. Making them "step down" to 60Hz is, sorry to use the term, a fool's errand. Finding stuff that'll work on the generator will be easier and cheaper than trying to make the generator do your bidding.
And don't put too much effort into it. We've all jumped the gun on an auction without reading the fine print, it's no big deal if you walk away from it before it becomes an issue at home.