just to set the record straight, there is no real weak link regarding 2nd that does not include 3rd as well. it is the hub for 2-3 syncro that has soft keys and if you really abuse it over and over again they will shear off. 2nd, 3rd, and 5th gear all spin right on the mainshaft, steel on steel, so if the speed gets high enough, it will get hot and chase all the oil away resulting in failure. that is the reason i mounted 2nd and 5th on needle bearings.
with a stock trans, there is absolutely no reason not to start out in 2nd once you know how to use the clutch. most trucks have a metallic pad disk and they are not intended to slip, so clutch engagement should be fairly quick and at a low rpm differential. same with shifting, put it in the next gear, release the clutch and then apply power.